Saturday, February 21, 2009

Swinger Profile Part 3

Here is another content rich Profile we received from someone at Adult Friend Finder

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For us we enjoy couples who enjoys the finer things in life and yet might be just as happy to have an ice cold beer and BBQ as to be at a fancy place drinking a big bold red wine. A tux is fun but so are jeans. We love the theater but could be found in your corner pub throwing darts. If a couple just wants to hang out get to know us, relax, get comfortable and see if we become friends that is fine with us. As long as we can flirt tease and torment each other along the way.

Our key is that we love variety in so many things that we demand it in our sex life as well.

We love to travel and meeting couples or single ladies while traveling is a turn on to us. Certainly give us something to remember the trip by.

Funny isn’t it we are just getting to the sex part. It is just like foreplay it takes time to get there. She (we) enjoy(s) anything that brings pleasure and not into very much pain. I say that because a playful smack on the ass seems at the right moment can send her flying. Although we like toys we don’t need them to play well with others.

If you have a question just ask. Someone once said there are no stupid questions. Well he was wrong and there are stupid questions but after you ask one if you can’t laugh about it we are the wrong couple to be with as we find humor in almost everything.

We are not looking for a soul mate. We have everything we need at home. We are not looking for someone to give us something we do not have, because we have everything we need and want at home. We do this for fun, entertainment and pleasure. We believe if you play together, you stay together. Hubby is straight. Anyone interested in male/male action, need not bother. Keeping in mind bumping and touching does happen in the heat of the moment and she loves to have her clit licked and sucked while f _ _ _ ing. So we aren't talking about that sort of touching we are talking tops and bottoms and there is no interest there.

We would hope that the conversation would be interesting and about things outside the lifestyle however it should lead to some shameless flirting and sexual innuendo causing everyone to flush with the desire to go a bit farther.

We love to see each other pleasured. However you must remember we are the love of each others lives. This is our pleasure moment. Making an already explosive love life even hotter with variety because we choose to fan the flames of lust with others.

I love her to be the center of attention. Laying between us. So she can fully experience the things that two men can do to her and for her. To have both of her breast touched, fondled and sucked on at the same time. For her to feel our hardness pressed against both of her thighs at the same time as one of us gives her attention to her upper body and the other takes care of her needs below. Running my fingers through her hair as she sucks your cock while on her knees. I want eye contact with the woman I love as she fondles your balls and sucks you off because she craves it and it excites her. My pleasure comes with her excitement.

I want to watch as you enter her for the very first time and I see her facial expression knowing she loves the feeling of opening up to take you inside her. I want to hold her hand as you slide in and out of her amazing hot tight pussy. As her head turns from side to side as she comes close to her release I want to guide my cock into her mouth and have her suck me.

She loves oral pleasure and attention and I think two men giving her what she loves should be better then one.

One last thing and this isn't about sharing it is about something special for us. Her sweet little ass is mine and is not shared.

I am sure that give you plenty to think about and we might add or change as we go along. But think about that for now and drop us line.

Just because there is long write up about single guys does not mean we don't enjoy couples. We do! The interaction is so much fun and the conversation even better. Just seems single guys need more instruction then couples do. Couples seem to seek there own level naturally.

The dynamic of couples is wonderful and we love the playfulness of non swap play and full swap. It is more about who we are with and being comfortable then anything else.

We have come to understand the issue become not four people hitting it off but a matrix of 16 combos that have to work with a couple.

When it is good it is very very good sort of thing.

Very open to couple exploration!

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Swinger Profile Part 2

We like to include a lot of info to screen out the people we don't want to spend anytime with.

Here is an example from our SwingLifestyles profile:
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We Are Looking For:

Searching for FUN People, that like us, aren't pushy, that are honest, open and respectful of everyone's privacy.

It's great to meet those that we connect instantly with, but we are excited just to have Fun with Fun People that Respect Each Other. Tantra, Tao or Sacred Sex Experience would be a great bonus.

If you want to connect, Tell Us What It Is You Liked about our profile (in more than one sentence) or don't expect a reply.

Let's chat, exchange pics, meet, then who knows? We are spontaneous and love to go with the flow. With online contacts that want to meet, we insist that the women talk first before we meet as there are way too many pretending guy's.We love it when we find people that like to dance and are not afraid to get down and dirty on the dance floor.

A Few Clarifications:
1- LIFESTYLERS? We don't have to get laid to feel the time was well spent. This is only a very small fun part of our life and who we are. We just seem to be pulled to it from time to time. We are very focused and busy building our online Porn business FunXClub. com but enjoy the live diversions with friendly, warm bodies and being able to write off so many of our Adult Play expenses.
2- CERTIFICATIONS: Just because we certify or are certified by someone doesn't mean we've had sex with them. It does means we've met them in person, found them to be real and fun to hang with.
3- CONDOMS: We are not willing to risk picking up any diseases here, so condoms are a must... IF it goes there.
4- SHAVING: If the sight of pubic hair scares you, "run away! run away!" We are well trimmed and clean and are fine with those that shave.
5- SINGLE GUYS: You gotta be pretty damb special!
6- BI?: Happily Hetro....Have Played Bi for Hubby more than once.7- PHOTOS: Our privacy is very important to us and we are not quick to show our faces. If you decide to show us pics, we're more interested in seeing your eyes and face than your genitals.

Description:

We are an Erotic, Fun, Madly In Love, Secure, Open Minded, Adventurous, Work from Home, Drug & Disease free Couple, intending to remain so.

Totally love being with each other, music, dancing, singing, traveling for business/pleasure and laughing a lot.We are always getting accused of having too much fun together. If they only knew about this fun....

We love getting past our initial image judgments and discovering the beautiful whole package in people. Mainly, we are into Experiencing life fully and sharing who we are with like minded people.

We enjoy the no pressure atmosphere of swing clubs and because of the dirty dancing we can get away with that would get us arrested elsewhere. It's great fore play for us........we do love a party.

We Just Plain Luv Life and Making New Friends.

Our fantasies and/or real experiences:

We enjoy sharing our sexual passion and watching each other pleasure or be pleasured by someone else or doing them together. We love the feeling of being connected to each other through someone.Threesomes or more with other females (or on occasion a very special guy) are a hot item for us.

We'd love a female or couple to call us up late and invite us to our back yard hot tub and pool to play well into the morning. Outdoor sex is a real turn on.

We Love Nude Beaches with the sun and the wind bathing our bodies.

Vegas is a short distance away, so we visit often. Have had a great time at the clubs but We Have a Great Time Where Ever We Are.

We are not into pain and really enjoy the soft, slow, sensual FUN.

AGAIN! If you want to connect, Tell Us What It Is You Liked about our profile (in more than one sentence) or don't expect a reply.

Follow us at luvpaths.blogspot.com

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Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Swinging - The Profile - Part 1

One of the most challenging but exciting things is writing a profile, searching for the right swinger couple.

As we write we're excited by the thoughts of meeting a couple willing to swing for the first time. Crossing into the unknown. It isn’t just about sex although that adds to the excitement. It is wondering will we even like each other. We're talking about the strange dynamic that has to be present with couples.

- Do you like yourself is the basic building block here. Four people have to be “Okay” with who they are and what they are doing here.

-Then the ladies must like each other not from a bisexual approach but more importantly enough to allow you to play with their husband.

-Then the guys have to be fine with each other to the point of allowing this other man to take the most important person to you in the world and fuck her. Oh it may be soft sexy sensual and romantic for a long while but at some point this new man is going to quite simply fuck your wife.

- Now if you are lucky enough to get past those matches you know have to have the physical attraction cross platform of you desiring this other mans wife and he yours. Then your wife desiring this new stranger and that man (who is about to fuck your wife) his wife has to desire you.

Is it any wonder it takes time and effort to meet the right couple to play with?

Even if there is no attraction to play you can still make great friends in or out of the bedroom.

Once past "do we like each other" and everyone is willing to move forward, the fun really starts.

We'll write about the content of our Profile in the next post.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Who Would of Ever Thought ???

Two madly in love best friends that love life to the fullest following their own LuvPaths through the world of the swinging lifestyles.

WOW!!! We're not in Kansas anymore

Let us just say that a just a few years ago we would of never imagined that we would have any personal knowledge of what is was like to be with anyone sexually but each other. We went there in fantasy for fun and extra excitement but never thought it would go anywhere close to reality.

In future post we'll share our exploration into the world of Swinging / Lifestyles from the beginning. (The Good, The Bad & The Ugly) How we got started, where we went, what we did, what we liked, what we will never do again and what we suggest.

T & T