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Casual sex – and no emotional wreckage?

2009-12-09T15:21:00.000-08:00

Results of a study on casual sex among young adults surprise U researchers. But they note the physical risks.

By JOSEPHINE MARCOTTY, Star Tribune

Last update: December 9, 2009 - 8:24 AM

As most every parent knows, hooking up for casual sex is bad for young people because it causes emotional or psychological damage.

Right?

Well, actually, no. At least not for young adults between the ages of 18 and 24, according to a new study by University of Minnesota researchers.

Even they found the results startling.

They asked more than 1,300 young Minnesota adults about their most recent sexual encounters, their self-esteem and their emotional well-being. Interestingly, only about one-fifth of the subjects said their last encounter was casual. But their overall emotional status was no different than the four-fifths who said they were in committed relationships with their most recent sexual partner.

"We were so surprised," said Marla Eisenberg, an assistant professor at the university's School of Public Health who studies adolescent and young adult health.

"The conventional wisdom is that casual sex, 'friends with benefits,' and hooking up is hurtful. That's what we've been teaching kids for decades," especially in the federally funded abstinence-only sex education programs, she said.

Not that Eisenberg advocates casual sex. Far from it.

"Casual sex is not for everyone" as an emotional matter, she said. Moreover, there is real physical risk: Rates of sexually transmitted diseases are rising relentlessly, and teen pregnancy rates in Minnesota are on the increase as well.

But, she said, sex education curriculums, parents and public health programs should "focus on the things that are real threats," such as interpersonal violence, pregnancy risk and STDs, not on the theory that casual sex is emotionally harmful.

The researchers surveyed 1,311 young adults in Minnesota, pulled from a group they began following years ago as part of a major ongoing research study in adolescent health and nutrition. All the people in the study were sexually active and answered a series of survey questions about their last sexual encounter, depressive symptoms and self-esteem.

SOURCE: http://www.startribune.com/lifestyle/health/78786622.html?elr=KArksLckD8EQDUoaEyqyP4OW3ckUiD3aPc:_Yyc:aUUl

Happy Mmmmmm Weekend!

2009-05-22T07:22:00.000-07:00

If you are looking for a place to play over the Memorial Day weekend:

We just have to give a shout out for JJ Western Swing in Pahrump NV. (1 hr north of Vegas) http://www.jjwesternswing.com

We've been twice and just wish we had more time to spend there. It seemed a bit red neck to us when we first arrived and we almost left but we are so fortunate to have stayed around. The average age seemed to be 35 - 45.

For a $40/couple a night suggested donation, you get the cleanest, friendliest, fun & wild time in the west. It includes great food, an overnight stay and brunch the next day.

Wish we could be there for the 4 day Memorial Weekend. Here is an email we got about it:
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It's, the party weekend you've all been waiting for! Couples and ALL singles are invited to come join us for our Memorial Day, and Summer kick-off party beginning @ 7:00 PM Friday evening, and going all the way through till sometime Monday, when the last person is scraped from the dance floor or pool deck, fished from the pool, skimmed from the hot tub's or has been given some form of Artificial Resuscitation! BBQ'S, POOL PLAY, NUDE SUNBATHING, DANCING, LAUGHING, GREAT PEOPLE, NEED WE SAY MORE? Just pack your bags, and head on out! The BULL, and The RAM say, You gal's better rest up, your gonna need it. Those who are planning an overnight stay or attending multiple day's, please RSVP in advance via our party hot-line @ 775-513-3544.
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We look forward to hearing about your favorite value, Tori & Tan

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2009-04-17T08:13:00.000-07:00

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Making the Most of a Down Economy

2009-04-17T06:39:00.000-07:00

New Research Says Losing Your Job Might Help Your Sex Life

by Niels Hoven on April 17, 2009, 4 comments

Now that your taxes are done, we thought we'd explore the sexier side of financial insolvency. Those of you excited about a little more recreational activity in your bedrooms should keep reading. It turns out all these financial disasters may have a bit of a silver lining.

Exhibit A is the following graph, which shows the average number of times Americans have sex each year, broken down by their level of satisfaction with their financial situation. The data is from the General Social Survey, a National Science Foundation project that has interviewed over 50,000 people over the last four decades.

CLICK HERE TO SEE THE GRAPHS AND READ THE WHOLE ARTICLE AT:

Hilarious Prank on Two Phone Sex Operators

2009-04-15T10:35:00.000-07:00

Hilarious prank played by a couple of DJs on two phone sex operators.

HAPPY EASTER!!!!

2009-04-12T07:55:00.000-07:00

Thanks to our very nasty new friends at
JJ Western Swing for your
Nasty, Naughty, Erotic & "Nekked" Poolside Call on Easter.
Hope to be with ya all again real soon!!!!
Keep it sweet for us V, TnT

How's That for an Easter Peep Show? Looks just like JJ's, but who's on the poll?

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Here's a Spring Video for Those Who Like their Bushes Trimmed

ALL I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT LIFE I LEARNED FROM THE EASTER BUNNY
Don't put all of your eggs in one basket
Walk softly and carry a big carrot
Everyone needs a friend who is all ears
There's no such thing as too much candy
All work and no play can make you a basket case
A cute little tail attracts a lot of attention
Everyone is entitled to a bad hare day
Let happy thoughts multiply like rabbits
Some body parts should be floppy
Keep your paws off other people's jellybeans
Good things come in small sugar-coated packages
The grass is always greener in someone else's basket
An Easter bonnet can tame even the wildest hare
To show your true colors you have to come out of your shell

The best things in life are still sweet and gooey !!

HAVE A HAPPY EASTER

Stimulation Baby ;)

2009-04-09T13:56:00.000-07:00

Even though I think the government should stay out of our lives and our companies, here is an alternative plan that is a lot better than what they are doing........!

There's about 40 million people over 50 in the work force. Pay them $1 million apiece severance with stipulations.

1) They leave their jobs. Forty million job openings - Unemployment fixed.

2) They buy NEW American cars. Forty million cars ordered - Auto Industry fixed.

3) They either buy a house/pay off their mortgage - Housing Crisis fixed.

4) They all buy around the world airfares and scenic plane tours - Aerospace industry fixed.

This would be a third of the cost for just the AIG bonuses!

And think of the boom to the swing club industry. All that free time and energy to burn!!

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Zodiac Swinger Survey Game Results

2009-04-08T15:20:00.000-07:00

Thanks to all the Swingers at Swingular.com for playing the Zodiac Survey Game and for all the kind personal replies to us!

After 3 days of posting and 107 responses and 1895 views, here are the totals as of 4-8-09 12:30pm:

We have also merged "what each sign says after sex" just for fun.
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Scorpio 15 =14% -"Let me untie you!"

Gemini 13 =12% -"It was good! Let’s do it again! ...and again ...and"

Cancer 11 =10% -"Sorry I’m crying. Its not you, it’s just me. You’re still gonna marry me, right?"

Virgo 10 =9% -"Let’s do it one more time before I make the bed! (also thinks: ) If I ask you to meet me on Tuesday at 9.00, is it ok with you?"

Aries 10 =9% -"Oh, I was good!!! Wasn’t I?"

Libra 10 =9% -"Did I satisfy you? Was I good enough?"

Sagittarius 9 =8% -"Don’t call me! I’ll call you… what was your name again?"

Taurus 8 =7% -"Let's get to it, but do we have to do different positions all the time?"

Leo 6 =6% -"You’re welcome!"

Capricorn 6 =6% -"Next time we‘ll turn off the lights, and I‘ll be on top! And, by the way, can you lend me your credit card?"

Pisces 5 =5% -" If you liked it, I liked it!"

Aquarius 4 =4% -"Have some more time? I just came up with a new position I think we must try!"
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Thanks to:

CARESS4U for sharing a similar pole at: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/polls-never-ending-threads/7691-whats-your-sign.html

8THHOUSE our resident expert, for suggesting 2 good books on astrology and sex:
"Sexual Astrology" by Martine and "Astrology & Sexual Analysis" by Morris C. Goodman
She says they can be good books to put out for people to read at parties as a fun ice breaker.

Have fun 'till our next naughty exchange,

Tori & Tan

Kanamara Matsuri (Festival of the Steel Phallus)

2009-04-07T19:15:00.000-07:00

Kanamara Matsuri (Festival of the Steel Phallus)

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What Does a Person of Each Zodiac Sign Say after Sex!

2009-04-06T21:33:00.000-07:00

It was fun getting all your responses to the Zodiac Sign post and many of you asked what it all meant. Well, neither of us claim any expertise at all in the area but we found the following information entertaining and educational It sure hit home for us.

Tell us all if it fits for you or someone you know.

Your new naughty friends, Taurus Tori & Gemini Tan
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* Aries: Oh, I was good!!! Wasn’t I?

* Taurus: Let's get to it, but do we have to do different positions all the time?

* Gemini: It was good! Let’s do it again! ...and again ...and

* Cancer: Sorry I’m crying. Its not you, it’s just me. You’re still gonna marry me, right?

* Leo: You’re welcome!

* Virgo: Let’s do it one more time before I make the bed! (also thinks: ) If I ask you to meet me on Tuesday at 9.00, is it ok with you?

* Libra: Did I satisfy you? Was I good enough?

* Scorpio: Let me untie you!

* Sagittarius: Don’t call me! I’ll call you… what was your name again?

* Capricorn: Next time we‘ll turn off the lights, and I‘ll be on top! And, by the way, can you lend me your credit card?

* Aquarius: Have some more time? I just came up with a new position I think we must try!

* Pisces: If you liked it, I liked it!

Child Born with Second Penis in the Middle of His Back

2009-04-06T19:13:00.000-07:00

Child Born with Second Penis in the Middle of His Back

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Which is Hornier, (is that a word?)...Taurus or Gemini??

2009-04-03T23:40:00.000-07:00

At our crazy all-niter at JJ's last weekend, we started asking people what their sign was. It amazed me that most of the people there playing were either Taurus or the majority, Gemini.

Now I know all you Scorpio's are going to jump in here and claim it's YOU. Everyone agrees you are the most promiscuous... but seriously.... I was surprised.

I am wondering if Gemini's maintain this professional, analytical front during the week and on the weekend the evil, naughty, nasty twin busts out. Can anyone enlighten me?

I do know that I sure enjoyed playing with that guy, which ever twin was taking over!!

So help me with my research. Ya'll have a FREE Strip Poker game with Ashley and then drop me a quick note to tell me what your sign is. We will see who wins!

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Please email me directly with your sign @ ToriLuvs@gmail.com

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WOW!!! - Still recuping from round two @ JJ's Western Swing Club.

2009-03-30T23:19:00.000-07:00

If you missed our Round 1 post to JJ's, read it here:
http://luvpaths.blogspot.com/2009/03/we-survived-our-1st-time-jjs-western.html
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Round 2

We can't believe how sore we are after this, our second weekend trip to JJ's...and we didn't even fall over backwards at the fire pit like... you know who you are.

All I can say is I'm glad we work from home cuz there is no way we would have made it out the door this morning.... Tori is STILL enjoying the "Stiff Night" affect...(exhausted sigh)

Our night started out with a phone call from Hoss, as we were driving over the hump, where we could hear Mary screaming orgasmicly in the swing outside. Talk about putting the pressure on to speed and get there faster.

The whole experience seems really surreal but here are a few things we want to express appreciation for:

- Thanks Hoss for having the PUC shots cold and waiting, they hit the spot quickly... And, especially for the M&M, (Massage and Molest) that literally took Tori "out of body". It started with warm oils and four hands exotically stimulating every muscle in her body. Then out came the Rabbit and pin-point bullet to stimulate more than muscle! Tori's abs are still hurting from the convulsing orgasm. Hoss thought she tasted delicious!

Here is his version of the event " Tori is more beautiful than Aphrodite and would make most mortal men want to drop to their knees and worship her. But, alas, I am not a mere mortal and I had planned an M&M (Massage & Molest), session for her. Needless to say, she was reduced to nothing more than a quivering pile of protoplasm when Tan and I had finished with her....NICELY DONE TAN!!!"

- Thanks Jennie for giving us the #4 bungalow that we thought we would get some sleep in... until our new best friends Scotty, Van, Boss & Mrs. Boss delivered very special gifts which lasted into the wee morning hours:) Part of which was Tori squirting again!! I have to say it really turned me on seeing Scottys big black c*ck taking care of her beautiful white pu^sy. The fact that she was screaming with intensity made it hard to keep from cumming while I was enjoying Mrs Boss' perfect ass as she was on her knees moaning. Good thing Scotty turned us on to the "Stiff Nights" that really do keep you rock hard with recovery time of only minutes!!

- Thanks V for your tender erotic touch and for tricking us and the Energizer Bunnies into coming by telling us both the other would be there, when no commitment had been made....LOL. It worked! And God it was fun being crammed in the zen room with how many??? I just remember the beds and floor were covered and I kicked out the closet door while I was on my back eating some yummy pu#sy while she was giving head to Scotty. No surprise that "mini naughty" was getting her share of the variety of d^cks that were cruising the room.

Once again JJ's provided an absolutely great weekend, meeting and making new authentic friends! Tori loved the morning after sunning naked by the pool after breakfast. Thank you!
If you haven't yet, check them out at http://www.jjwesternswing.com

TnT

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Tax Deductable Lifestyle Activities

2009-03-19T11:08:00.000-07:00

We are always looking for ways to mix business with pleasure by conducting a valid business activity whenever and where ever we travel. This way we can write off all or at least part of the activity.

It just got easier for us with a new Online Porn business that cost us under $40US per month to start and run. It is easy to keep your identity CONFIDENTIAL, if you please.

We just made a 3oo mile round trip to a swing club this last weekend and spent the night there.
(Talk to a qualified home based business accountant about how to conduct a valid business activity so you can write it off.)

It cost us $40 for the party and $30 in gas for a total of $70.
Our tax write (mileage and per diem allowed) ended up being almost $400.
- If we were just in a 20% tax bracket we would of made $10 in tax savings off the trip.

Maybe that doesn't sound like much but consider what it means when you spend $3000 or more on a longer trip, cruise or lifestyle resort.

BTW: Yes we did end up meeting some wonderful people and didn't get any sleep that night. And, we didn't push our new business on anyone. We just told them what we did for a living when the asked and collected emails and phone #'s from those that wanted more info.

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We Survived Our 1st Time @ JJ's Western Swing lifestyles club!

2009-03-15T23:06:00.000-07:00

I will be honest, at first glance we weren't sure if we would fit in, being city folk. I mean, come on...PAHRUMP?? ;)

Thankfully, we stayed and again being honest, had one of the BEST lifestyle experiences of our lifestyle career...

Even tho' we didn't previously know anyone there, they made it feel like going home and getting together with great friends. The energy they created was wonderful, warm, inviting and safe. It felt like a FUN n WILD slumber party when mom and dad are out of town!

They accepted us into their circle of love and friendship. It was certainly worth the drive! We were grateful to find so many open, funny, respectful people that were not afraid to get down and dirty. I'm sure you've heard that 'sex is dirty, if you're doing it right' and they know how to do it right!!

But the house was anything but dirty...more like immaculately clean!! And that included the hot tubs.

For starters, Hoss, who was tending bar, greeted us with Pineapple Upside Down Shots which hit the spot and definitely got us heated up! I'm baking a pineapple upside down cake right now but somehow I don't think it will do the trick. Deliciously naughty!! It certainly helped to get the dirty dancing started and somehow I lost my top before the first dance was over...my bra is hanging from the bull horns...I think.

V joined us on the dance floor and it didn't take long until her sarong fell to the floor, exposing her perky beautiful breast. Tan absolutely loved having her naked body between us grinding on his hard "manhood". And certainly one of the highlights was Tan being tied up, blind-folded and worked over by multiple sensuous hands and mouths, including mine. It was an amazing erotic experience for both of us. Everyone should experience the heightened sensations of romantic soft bondage.

Then it was my time for a first...."Riding the Bull" YEE HAA!! And to keep Tan busy, V rode him!!

By early morning our bungalow was taken over by who knows who and the "energizer bunnies" invited us to sleep with them and V. Tan was not disappointed that there was absolutely NO sleeping going on. Instead "mini naughty" was ready for a swap and it turned into a yummy orgy. Tan dove into her delicious wet pu#sy while fingering V and I had another first at the hands of mr. naughty...I squirted....sorry, another sheet change!!

We have been having wet dreams ever since and hope to get out there and see all our new friends again soon! Check out their site @ http://www.jjwesternswing.com

Tori and Tan
TnT....get it? (We are in the witness protection program.....don't blow our cover....LOL)

PS. Make sure you stick around the next morning for JJ's yummy breakfast and patio chat recounting the fun from the night before. It truly was a beautiful way to end an exotic, FUN party!

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Utah is No. 1 - for online pornography consumption

2009-03-02T11:11:00.000-08:00

We found this article very interesting

By Dawn House

The Salt Lake Tribune
Posted: 03/02/2009 07:39:01 PM MST

Besides its political bent, Utah’s per capita appetite for online pornography makes it the nation’s run-away red-light state.

A study by a Harvard Business School professor shows that Utah outpaces the more conservative states — which all tend to purchase more Internet porn than other states.

Online porn subscription rates are higher in states that enacted conservative legislation banning same-sex marriage or civil unions and where surveys show support for conservative positions on religion, gender roles and sexuality, according to an analysis published in the Journal of Economic Perspectives.

The Beehive State briefly experimented with a state-funded porn czar until 2003. The study examining online porn usage from 2006 to 2008 shows those efforts apparently failed.

Utah has the nation’s highest online porn subscription rate per thousand home broadband users, at 5.47, while the nearby states of Idaho and Montana showed the lowest rates of 1.98 and 1.92, respectively, according to the study.

Utah’s No. 1 score may have to do with its demographics, said the author of the study, Benjamin Edelman.

For instance, Internet porn subscriptions are particularly widespread in states with young populations, in the 15 to 24 age group, while people over 65 are less likely to subscribe. Income can be a another factor, with each $1,000 increase in average household income pushing up the number of subscribers. Rates also go
up with a college education and among people who are divorced, although marriage and graduate degrees have the opposite effect.

“Even when I control for income, age, education, and marital status, Utah residents still consume disproportionately more than people from other states,” said Edelman.

Another possibility for Utah’s top porn billing may be the scarcity of adult entertainment outside the home.

“If it is distinctively difficult to get this material in retail locations in Utah, Utah residents who seek such material may have to get it online,” said Edelman, in an e-mail. “On net, then, Utah residents would be buying more online adult entertainment — but perhaps not more total adult entertainment. That said, I analyzed only online adult entertainment, so I’m not in a position to assess the magnitude of this effect.”

Although Utah is headquarters for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Edelman found that regions where people regularly attend religious services are not statistically different from their counterparts in more secular regions. But users who do attend religious services tend to shift their adult entertainment sessions to other days of the week than the day of services.

Pamela Atkinson, head of the Utah Coalition Against Pornography, said other indications, such has Utah ranking second in Google searches for “hot sex” and “naughty,” back up what Edelman has found.

“What I do know is that from all accounts the problem is really growing in Utah,” she said. “People spending more time on the Internet are realizing this is something they can do in the privacy of their own rooms and their own homes.”

Rep. Carl Wimmer, R-Herriman, who worked in law enforcement, said he has never dealt with a sex offender who didn’t get his start with pornography.

“I’m not a huge fan of censoring the Internet, but this is definitely something to look into to see if we can stop the influx of pornography into our society, because pornography is such a plague. It’s rotten to the core and it hurts families and it hurts children.”

Daniel Weis, spokesman for the Colorado-based Christian group, Focus on The Family, said the study “is credible only for what it is studying, which is very little.”

“My caution is that people do not extrapolate that this is a report for the entire nation,” he said. “The fact that conservative-minded people are fighting porn doesn’t mean that they go home and look at it.”

The study used data from anonymous credit card sales from a top-10 Internet porn provider that operates hundreds of Web sites offering a wide variety of adult entertainment. Edelman then correlated that data with ZIP code information for his analysis.

– Robert Gehrke contributed to this report.

This attitude following is Minimizing the issue. Pornography is a common characteristic for sexual offenders, stalkers, rapist and Domestic Violence. Women are viewed as objects not human beings.
Another possibility for Utah’s top porn billing may be the scarcity of adult entertainment outside the home.

Swinger Profile Part 3

2009-02-21T08:31:00.000-08:00

Here is another content rich Profile we received from someone at Adult Friend Finder

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For us we enjoy couples who enjoys the finer things in life and yet might be just as happy to have an ice cold beer and BBQ as to be at a fancy place drinking a big bold red wine. A tux is fun but so are jeans. We love the theater but could be found in your corner pub throwing darts. If a couple just wants to hang out get to know us, relax, get comfortable and see if we become friends that is fine with us. As long as we can flirt tease and torment each other along the way.

Our key is that we love variety in so many things that we demand it in our sex life as well.

We love to travel and meeting couples or single ladies while traveling is a turn on to us. Certainly give us something to remember the trip by.

Funny isn’t it we are just getting to the sex part. It is just like foreplay it takes time to get there. She (we) enjoy(s) anything that brings pleasure and not into very much pain. I say that because a playful smack on the ass seems at the right moment can send her flying. Although we like toys we don’t need them to play well with others.

If you have a question just ask. Someone once said there are no stupid questions. Well he was wrong and there are stupid questions but after you ask one if you can’t laugh about it we are the wrong couple to be with as we find humor in almost everything.

We are not looking for a soul mate. We have everything we need at home. We are not looking for someone to give us something we do not have, because we have everything we need and want at home. We do this for fun, entertainment and pleasure. We believe if you play together, you stay together. Hubby is straight. Anyone interested in male/male action, need not bother. Keeping in mind bumping and touching does happen in the heat of the moment and she loves to have her clit licked and sucked while f _ _ _ ing. So we aren't talking about that sort of touching we are talking tops and bottoms and there is no interest there.

We would hope that the conversation would be interesting and about things outside the lifestyle however it should lead to some shameless flirting and sexual innuendo causing everyone to flush with the desire to go a bit farther.

We love to see each other pleasured. However you must remember we are the love of each others lives. This is our pleasure moment. Making an already explosive love life even hotter with variety because we choose to fan the flames of lust with others.

I love her to be the center of attention. Laying between us. So she can fully experience the things that two men can do to her and for her. To have both of her breast touched, fondled and sucked on at the same time. For her to feel our hardness pressed against both of her thighs at the same time as one of us gives her attention to her upper body and the other takes care of her needs below. Running my fingers through her hair as she sucks your cock while on her knees. I want eye contact with the woman I love as she fondles your balls and sucks you off because she craves it and it excites her. My pleasure comes with her excitement.

I want to watch as you enter her for the very first time and I see her facial expression knowing she loves the feeling of opening up to take you inside her. I want to hold her hand as you slide in and out of her amazing hot tight pussy. As her head turns from side to side as she comes close to her release I want to guide my cock into her mouth and have her suck me.

She loves oral pleasure and attention and I think two men giving her what she loves should be better then one.

One last thing and this isn't about sharing it is about something special for us. Her sweet little ass is mine and is not shared.

I am sure that give you plenty to think about and we might add or change as we go along. But think about that for now and drop us line.

Just because there is long write up about single guys does not mean we don't enjoy couples. We do! The interaction is so much fun and the conversation even better. Just seems single guys need more instruction then couples do. Couples seem to seek there own level naturally.

The dynamic of couples is wonderful and we love the playfulness of non swap play and full swap. It is more about who we are with and being comfortable then anything else.

We have come to understand the issue become not four people hitting it off but a matrix of 16 combos that have to work with a couple.

When it is good it is very very good sort of thing.

Very open to couple exploration!

Swinger Profile Part 2

2009-02-15T08:16:00.000-08:00

We like to include a lot of info to screen out the people we don't want to spend anytime with. Here is an example from our SwingLifestyles profile: --------------- We Are Looking For: Searching for FUN People, that like us, aren't pushy, that are honest, open and respectful of everyone's privacy. It's great to meet those that we connect instantly with, but we are excited just to have Fun with Fun People that Respect Each Other. Tantra, Tao or Sacred Sex Experience would be a great bonus. If you want to connect, Tell Us What It Is You Liked about our profile (in more than one sentence) or don't expect a reply. Let's chat, exchange pics, meet, then who knows? We are spontaneous and love to go with the flow. With online contacts that want to meet, we insist that the women talk first before we meet as there are way too many pretending guy's.We love it when we find people that like to dance and are not afraid to get down and dirty on the dance floor. A Few Clarifications: 1- LIFESTYLERS? We don't have to get laid to feel the time was well spent. This is only a very small fun part of our life and who we are. We just seem to be pulled to it from time to time. We are very focused and busy building our online Porn business FunXClub. com but enjoy the live diversions with friendly, warm bodies and being able to write off so many of our Adult Play expenses. 2- CERTIFICATIONS: Just because we certify or are certified by someone doesn't mean we've had sex with them. It does means we've met them in person, found them to be real and fun to hang with. 3- CONDOMS: We are not willing to risk picking up any diseases here, so condoms are a must... IF it goes there. 4- SHAVING: If the sight of pubic hair scares you, "run away! run away!" We are well trimmed and clean and are fine with those that shave. 5- SINGLE GUYS: You gotta be pretty damb special! 6- BI?: Happily Hetro....Have Played Bi for Hubby more than once.7- PHOTOS: Our privacy is very important to us and we are not quick to show our faces. If you decide to show us pics, we're more interested in seeing your eyes and face than your genitals.
Description:
We are an Erotic, Fun, Madly In Love, Secure, Open Minded, Adventurous, Work from Home, Drug & Disease free Couple, intending to remain so. Totally love being with each other, music, dancing, singing, traveling for business/pleasure and laughing a lot.We are always getting accused of having too much fun together. If they only knew about this fun.... We love getting past our initial image judgments and discovering the beautiful whole package in people. Mainly, we are into Experiencing life fully and sharing who we are with like minded people. We enjoy the no pressure atmosphere of swing clubs and because of the dirty dancing we can get away with that would get us arrested elsewhere. It's great fore play for us........we do love a party. We Just Plain Luv Life and Making New Friends.
Our fantasies and/or real experiences:
We enjoy sharing our sexual passion and watching each other pleasure or be pleasured by someone else or doing them together. We love the feeling of being connected to each other through someone.Threesomes or more with other females (or on occasion a very special guy) are a hot item for us. We'd love a female or couple to call us up late and invite us to our back yard hot tub and pool to play well into the morning. Outdoor sex is a real turn on. We Love Nude Beaches with the sun and the wind bathing our bodies. Vegas is a short distance away, so we visit often. Have had a great time at the clubs but We Have a Great Time Where Ever We Are. We are not into pain and really enjoy the soft, slow, sensual FUN. AGAIN! If you want to connect, Tell Us What It Is You Liked about our profile (in more than one sentence) or don't expect a reply. Follow us at luvpaths.blogspot.com Make money, make your Lifestyle expenses tax deductible and have fun with us in our recession proof online Porn Biz FunXClub.com

Swinging - The Profile - Part 1

2009-02-11T07:48:00.000-08:00

One of the most challenging but exciting things is writing a profile, searching for the right swinger couple.

As we write we're excited by the thoughts of meeting a couple willing to swing for the first time. Crossing into the unknown. It isn’t just about sex although that adds to the excitement. It is wondering will we even like each other. We're talking about the strange dynamic that has to be present with couples.

- Do you like yourself is the basic building block here. Four people have to be “Okay” with who they are and what they are doing here.

-Then the ladies must like each other not from a bisexual approach but more importantly enough to allow you to play with their husband.

-Then the guys have to be fine with each other to the point of allowing this other man to take the most important person to you in the world and fuck her. Oh it may be soft sexy sensual and romantic for a long while but at some point this new man is going to quite simply fuck your wife.

- Now if you are lucky enough to get past those matches you know have to have the physical attraction cross platform of you desiring this other mans wife and he yours. Then your wife desiring this new stranger and that man (who is about to fuck your wife) his wife has to desire you.

Is it any wonder it takes time and effort to meet the right couple to play with?

Even if there is no attraction to play you can still make great friends in or out of the bedroom.

Once past "do we like each other" and everyone is willing to move forward, the fun really starts.

We'll write about the content of our Profile in the next post.

Who Would of Ever Thought ???

2009-02-02T08:41:00.000-08:00

Two madly in love best friends that love life to the fullest following their own LuvPaths through the world of the swinging lifestyles.

WOW!!! We're not in Kansas anymore

Let us just say that a just a few years ago we would of never imagined that we would have any personal knowledge of what is was like to be with anyone sexually but each other. We went there in fantasy for fun and extra excitement but never thought it would go anywhere close to reality.

In future post we'll share our exploration into the world of Swinging / Lifestyles from the beginning. (The Good, The Bad & The Ugly) How we got started, where we went, what we did, what we liked, what we will never do again and what we suggest.

T & T