Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Swinging - The Profile - Part 1

One of the most challenging but exciting things is writing a profile, searching for the right swinger couple.

As we write we're excited by the thoughts of meeting a couple willing to swing for the first time. Crossing into the unknown. It isn’t just about sex although that adds to the excitement. It is wondering will we even like each other. We're talking about the strange dynamic that has to be present with couples.

- Do you like yourself is the basic building block here. Four people have to be “Okay” with who they are and what they are doing here.

-Then the ladies must like each other not from a bisexual approach but more importantly enough to allow you to play with their husband.

-Then the guys have to be fine with each other to the point of allowing this other man to take the most important person to you in the world and fuck her. Oh it may be soft sexy sensual and romantic for a long while but at some point this new man is going to quite simply fuck your wife.

- Now if you are lucky enough to get past those matches you know have to have the physical attraction cross platform of you desiring this other mans wife and he yours. Then your wife desiring this new stranger and that man (who is about to fuck your wife) his wife has to desire you.

Is it any wonder it takes time and effort to meet the right couple to play with?

Even if there is no attraction to play you can still make great friends in or out of the bedroom.

Once past "do we like each other" and everyone is willing to move forward, the fun really starts.

We'll write about the content of our Profile in the next post.

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